"Society and Sex" an erotic sex story by Sextails

I found this article while surfing the web and though it was very interesting so i thought i would copy it to my blog for you guys to read!

Most men feel that they are much more sexual than women. After all, men think about sex every 2 to 5 minutes or so they say. Men also think that they have to talk women into having sex. Most men have been taught to be good boys or gentlemen and to suggest sex to a woman is insulting.

So what is the actual reality of women and sex? It took me ages to realize this, but women are much more sexual than men. In fact, they are much more sexual than most men can ever imagine.

To get an idea of this, read any women's sexual fantasy book. Women's sexual fantasies are much more developed than just about any mans. They can be elaborate and emotional and very descriptive and powerful. They incorporate taboo subjects, such as being dominated or in bondage and can be very slutty.

So why do most of us think that women don't like sex that much. I feel that parents teach their girls that you must be in love and in a committed relationship or married for sex. So their daughter will not go out and have sex and get pregnant. Society also says that a woman who really loves sex is a slut. Men are studs if they have a lot of sex with many women. A woman that has multiple partners is called a slut. This is why that even although a women love sex they will not admit this to someone that they do not know. Women do not want to be treated as objects.

Many women and some men too have had sexual abuse in their past. Some of us have had religious guilt about sex and masturbation. These factors can cripple the enjoyment of sex and intimacy. It takes a lot of healing before sex can be really enjoyed after abuse. I feel all of us have had some negative conditioning about sex. You were born as the result of an orgasm. Why not celebrate that fact! Other societies have celebrated the sex orgasms. Why not western societies?

When you walk down the street, do you hear men and women having orgasms? Not usually. Most of us block our sounds in sex due to our sexual shame. In my private practice as a sexologist, one aspect I suggest is to open up to the natural sounds during sex. If you block the sounds you block the full range of energy in your body.

In fact, I suggest to experiment making huge sounds into a pillow so not to deafen your lover. Men love a responsive woman that makes orgasmic sounds but most not want to do the same. Talking to women, I am surprised about how bad most men are as lovers. What is even more surprising is that most women put up with this!

Most men's orgasms are only a minute or two in length. However, a woman has the potential to have 2 to 3 hour orgasms even without stimulation. I have known several women that have explored the possibility of being orgasmic when working in an office! Most men do not realize this, but they can have orgasms without ejaculation. So I would like to leave you with the thought that women love sex. Women love to be naughty and slutty. Try some dirty talking during your next sexual experience.

Hi there guys I guess thats some food for thought? Now that you know your partner is really a secret sex maniac why not come and check out The Pleasure Zone and pick her up some little sexual treats?

Guidelines For Escorting

Basic Rules When Working as an Escort 

 Escorts in the UK earn a lot of money, as there is a huge client-base present in the larger cities. Thousands of businessmen travel here for various trips and vacations, and they want somebody to keep them company and give them pleasure. Working as an escort is largely risk free because for the most part, and more importantly, it is legal and is considered a professional business. If you are considering a career - short term or long terms, part time or full time - there are a few basic rules you can follow. These guidelines are to ensure that you keep earning the money you want, and be safe at the same time.

Screen your client

The most basic rule when you meet new clients is to screen them thoroughly, and find out as much about them as possible. Here is what you can do it. Ask the client to fill a form on your website or provide the required information by email. Primarily you want to know his name (real), phone number (fixed line). The above information is enough for you to do your basic research. The fixed line number is important. Don’t take just the mobile number. If you have the former, you can call and verify that the client indeed is staying or living there. Check out escort forums where experiences with clients are posted. This is done by real escorts, so you can trust them to post the right information. Escorts usually only post about clients anonymously when they turn out to be abusive. They do so to alert other escorts about such people.

Travelling

Arrange for your own transport. Arrive at the place by yourself and have arrangements in advance for travelling back from the client’s place. Don’t accept your client’s pick up and drop. Tell the client to mention the location where they will meet directly. Inform that you do not need to be picked up from anywhere. If he is staying at a hotel, ask him to mention its name. Some clients ask you to meet at a place and then take you to another place. The client should mention clearly where you will be going, so that you can plan to have a backup. If you travel with the client to another place, insist on public transport or a cab that you book.

Arriving

Arrive at the meeting place about 15mins early. Check out the surroundings. If the place is too noisy with music blaring, leave immediately. This is especially true if you are going to the client’s private residence. Ensure that your client is alone and nobody is with him in the room. You have agreed to be an escort for only one person at a time. On arriving, check if there is a door in the room that opens into a neighboring one. If so, leave immediately because it could be a trap set up for you. As soon as you arrive, ask for the money to be paid immediately. Don’t wait until the end, when the client might be too drunk or reveal that he has no money to pay you.

Getting paid

Don’t take credit cards from your client as payment. It may have no credit. Even if it has money, the client may dispute it later. Firstly, you don’t get paid and secondly, you may have to pay a lawyer to defend you. Don’t take checks from your client for payment. Checks can be linked to your checking account with your real name. Don’t take a money-order from your client as payment. The client will know your address and may stalk you. Accepting cash is also safe, if you can be sure that the currency is not a fake. If you want to be extra careful about the money, ask for a donation instead of fees. This will avoid you being framed for prostitution if there is a problem.

Professionalism

You are a professional escort and not a prostitute, although you have sex with your client. Have control over your client at all times, don’t lose it. Don’t speak unnecessary things with your client. You can talk in a way that arouses him, but don’t talk about love. Some clients have the habit of getting attached to you after a few meetings. They may forget that you are an escort providing you service for money. When having sex, always use a condom, to avoid any health issues. If the client is not clean, refuse to have sex with him. Bring your own condoms to the client. Whether it is for you or for the client, it should be your condom. You don’t know what your client’s condom contains. It could be a used one, which poses even more health problems. Always be polite and cordial when talking with your client. It enhances your image as a professional person and the client will enjoy your company even more.

All the above rules may make it sound like being an escort is fraught with danger. At least in the UK, this is definitely not the case. The rules mentioned above are just so that you are prepared for extreme situations.